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Open Source Relationships and the Long Tail of Pain

San Fransisco Magazine Chris Messina Tata Hunt So Open It Hurts

Chris Messina and Tara Hunt not only co-founded social media agency Citizen Agency and helped start the coworking movement, they also shared a very public romantic relationship for more than two years, until they had an equally public break-up (Chris and Tara).

Berniece Yeung explores their relationship in San Fransisco Magazine — “So Open It Hurts”

In a world not known for its epic romances, ChrisandTara used to be Web 2.0’s version of Brangelina. They lived together, worked at adjoining desks, finished each other’s sentences, guided each other’s dreams. Personality-wise, they were yin meets yang meets a whole lot of Venus and Mars. But in many other ways, they were two pieces of the same puzzle. Ultimately, the core tenet of open-source culture is that the sum is exponentially greater than the disparate parts—and the same could be said of Hunt and Messina’s union. In both work and love, they pushed each other to thrust the ideals of open source, including transparency and collaboration, into real life. In just two years, through the coworking movement and myriad other projects, the ripple effects of their partnership could be seen around the globe.

Is My Blog a Matrimonial Ad?

From the Mid-Day article on me I earlier wrote about -

Gaurav’s matrimonial-ish introduction reads: Male, 27, sometimes single. Tall, dark, intermittently handsome.

A friend-lover was very amused at the “matrimonial-ish” bit, and, when I dismissed it as mere journalistic excess, pointed out that I have not only fantasized about blog groupies and posted an open invitation to my women readers, but also dated at least two bloggers.

Even with such undeniable evidence against me, I maintain that my blog is not a matrimonial ad.

A dating ad? Well…

Too Good to be True

After a year when less was more, because that’s all there was, I almost have a problem of plenty (here, here and here).

And, almost to remind me of the hold she still has on me, she entered my dreams early in the morning:

We sit together on my parents’ bed -

You, my mother and I -

At their house at Patna

And watch ‘Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham’ on TV.

Their white Pomeranian bitch sits in your lap

And licks your hand. Dream four.

Also, apropos of nothing, my blog has been on the Wordpress Most Popular Blogs list for the last few days, and climbing.

I understand, of course, that both these situations are too good to be true, that they are tests of some sort, tests of my sanity, that I’ll open my eyes tomorrow morning and realise that it didn’t really happen.