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Open Source Relationships and the Long Tail of Pain

San Fransisco Magazine Chris Messina Tata Hunt So Open It Hurts

Chris Messina and Tara Hunt not only co-founded social media agency Citizen Agency and helped start the coworking movement, they also shared a very public romantic relationship for more than two years, until they had an equally public break-up (Chris and Tara).

Berniece Yeung explores their relationship in San Fransisco Magazine — “So Open It Hurts”

In a world not known for its epic romances, ChrisandTara used to be Web 2.0’s version of Brangelina. They lived together, worked at adjoining desks, finished each other’s sentences, guided each other’s dreams. Personality-wise, they were yin meets yang meets a whole lot of Venus and Mars. But in many other ways, they were two pieces of the same puzzle. Ultimately, the core tenet of open-source culture is that the sum is exponentially greater than the disparate parts—and the same could be said of Hunt and Messina’s union. In both work and love, they pushed each other to thrust the ideals of open source, including transparency and collaboration, into real life. In just two years, through the coworking movement and myriad other projects, the ripple effects of their partnership could be seen around the globe.

The Three Laws of The Long Tail of Pain

Quick Summary: Read about how the long tail doesn’t only apply to culture and commerce, but also to relationships.

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In my earlier post about the Long Tail of Pain, I just drew a diagram of how social media allows us to experience pain anytime, anyplace, in any form, but didn’t elaborate on the idea adequately.

The Long Tail of Pain

In this post, I’ll explain what a long tail is and how digital media has changed it. I’ll also explain how the long tail doesn’t only apply to culture and commerce, but also to relationships, specifically pain, via the Three Laws of the Long Tail of Pain.

Let me first explain what a long tail is.

A long tail curve is a statistical distribution in which a small number of data points have disproportionately high values compared to a large number of other data points that have progressively low values. If you rank these data points and plot them in the decreasing order of their values, you get a curve that first falls very sharply (forming the almost vertical head) and then falls more slowly (forming the almost horizontal tail). The Pareto Principle (the top 20% contribute 80% of the total) is an example of a long tail curve.

The Long Tail of Pain

The Long Tail doesn’t only define the new economics of culture and commerce; it also defines the new economics of relationships.

My new favorite idea is The Long Tail of Pain - how social media allows us to find pain anytime, anyplace, in any form. (Twitter)

The Long Tail of Pain

By the way, are we friends on Facebook or Twitter yet?