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Every Evening We Spend Together is a Gift

When I started my off-consumption experiment, I was convinced that it was the end of dating for me, at least for a year. To my surprise, I was totally wrong.

Before we met in real life, we met online, on Twitter.

The first time we met in the real life, for a walk on Worli Sea Face, she told me that she wanted to interview me.

The second time we met, for another walk on Worli Sea Face, I felt sad when it was time to leave.

The third time we met, at a conference, we pretended that we hadn’t planned to meet up, then left together.

The fourth time we met, for yet another walk, I told her that I had a crush on her.

“You are going away,” she reminded me. “What exactly do you expect me to do about your crush?” she asked.

“Nothing at all,” I replied weakly, “except that you let me feel the way I do.”

“Are you married? Are you seeing someone else? Are you psychotic?” she cut me off with a series of quick-fire questions.

My Tired Feet

Two months back, I thought of myself as a walker.

I walked for fun. I walked for exercise. I walked to digest my dinner. I walked to clean my head. I walked so that I could watch strangers. I walked so that I could talk with friends.

After I started my experiment and gave up my car, I walked all the time. I tried waking up early so that I could walk from my house in Cuffe Parade to my office in Kala Ghoda before the sun came up. I tried leaving office early so that I could walk over to Marine Drive before the sun went down. I walked to Churchgate station to catch local trains to the suburbs. I walked to New Marine Lines to watch French movies at Alliance Francaise. I met up with friends and dates for a walk on Marine Drive, or Worli Sea Face, or Bandra’s Carter Road, or Juhu’s Chowpatty Beach.