The Ten Commandments of Being Off Consumption: What Is Allowed, What Is Not

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Now that we know why I have gone off consumption, it’s time to lay out the rules for my year-long off-consumption experiment, list down what is allowed and what isn’t.

The intent of the experiment is to spend an year — from Mar 23, 2008 to March 22, 2009 — without buying anything that is not a necessity.

I have deliberately avoided defining what is a necessity because one of the most interesting aspects of the experiment for me is to “discover” what I think of as a necessity and how it changes with context.

However, here are the ten rules — the ten commandments, if you must — I’ll use through my year of being off consumption –

Rule #1: I’ll continue to consume what I already have; when I run out of it, I’ll replenish it only if it’s a necessity.

I’m allowed to drink wine until my wine cellar is empty, I’m allowed to read the books and watch the DVDs I already own, and I’m allowed to fly if I’m using my frequent flier miles.

In case you are wondering, no, I didn’t go on a shopping spree to stock up before I started my experiment. In fact, I haven’t been shopping much for the last six months, so it will add up to effectively a year and a half without shopping.

Rule #2: Work is sacrosanct; it’s (mostly) allowed if my employers are paying for it.

My employers will continue to pay for my internet and phone charges, my air travel fares, my outstation car rentals and my hotel bills.

However, if I’m traveling alone and if it doesn’t adversely affect my work, instead of staying in a hotel, I’ll try staying with a friend, or couchsurfing.

Also, I have returned the office car I was using and I’m not taking the perk car I am eligible for.

Rule #3: Only basic groceries, toiletries and household items are allowed.

Most packaged food items — biscuits, chips and soft drinks, for instance — are not allowed, but bread, butter, cheese, tea, coffee, honey and museli are.

Basic toiletries like soap, shampoo and shaving cream are allowed but I’ll start using phitkari (alum) when my bottle of after-shave lotion is finished.

Basic household items like detergents and disinfectants are also allowed.

Rule #4: Eating out and going out for paid entertainment is not allowed.

I’m someone who tries to never eat alone, so not eating out is a bigger thing than you think. Even coffee shops, takeaway and home delivery are not allowed, not even when someone else is paying for it.

When I’m traveling outstation on work and staying in a hotel, I’ll eat in my room, and only order fruits and salads. Similarly, if I’m attending an official function or meeting, or, let’s say, a tweetup or a reunion, I’ll eat only fruits and salads.

Paid entertainment — including movies, plays or music concerts — is not allowed, even if someone else is paying for it. However, free shows and shows for which I get free passes are allowed.

Rule #5: Buying clothes, accessories and gadgets is not allowed, but repairing and borrowing them is allowed.

I have enough clothes, and enough shoes, to last me the year, but I’ll be hopelessly out of fashion by the end of the year.

The Nokia N95 phone I almost bought last week will have to wait, but I can get my Sony handycam repaired, even if I have to change half the parts.

Rule #6: Buying books, music, or movies is not allowed, online or offline.

I spend a fortune on books and DVDs, so, after eating out, this will be the second highest impact item.

However, downloading free e-books, movies and music is allowed. Borrowing them from a library, or from friends, is also allowed.

Rule #7: Mass media is not allowed.

I haven’t watched television, listened to the radio, or read newspapers and magazines for more than a year now, so this shouldn’t be difficult at all.

The only exceptions will be newspapers or magazines in which my own interviews or articles are published.

Rule #8: Household help is not allowed.

It may not sound like a big thing to you, unless you are in India, in which case you’ll be so used to it that this will be the biggest item on the list.

I have asked my maid-servant not to come anymore, so I’ll cook, clean and wash myself through the year.

Rule #9: Buying gifts is not allowed, but giving and receiving gifts is.

If you are a friend, your birthday gift is likely to be a book or a CD I already own. If I really love you, expect a poem written on a hand-made card.

You, on the other hand, are allowed to gift me whatever you want and, for a change, I’ll even be grateful.

Rule #10: Investments of all types are allowed.

Investments of all types are allowed, including shares, mutual funds, insurance and property.

I’m increasingly looking at my online presence as an investment, so buying domains and hosting or design services is also allowed.

These ten commandments, of course, will remain work-in-progress through the year; in fact, I expect to add (or delete) one or two as I think of more things.

Do let me know what you think of my ten commandments. Am I being too easy or too hard on myself? Which of the ten commandments are the most difficult, or the most interesting? I’ll be looking forward to your reactions.

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Comments (15)

  1. Anjali wrote:

    Rule #7 Mass media is not allowed: No newspapers, TV, online news sites, nothing? That will be tough!!! How will you write your columns..plus aren’t they integral for your work in some way or the other?

    Rule #8 Household help is not allowed. :D That really only makes a difference in India…so yeah since you must be used to the comforts of a maid, I can imagine that’s going to take some doing. How about adding, ‘I cannot allow myself to become a slob’. i.e procrastinate on household work just because you now have to do it yourself? I know plenty of men who do that :)

    Tuesday, March 25, 2008 at 2:41 pm #
  2. @Anjali: I get a digest of work related news clipping every morning and I keep meeting client-servicing people from media channels, so going off mass media doesn’t really affect my work. I will continue to read my 200+ feeds though and read whatever news I need to, online.

    I’m quite OCD when it comes to neatness, so I’m sure I’ll make time for household chores.

    Tuesday, March 25, 2008 at 2:56 pm #
  3. medea wrote:

    Wow. So you´ll not only cook for yourself… but you´ll cook for yourself every single meal???

    An added advantage will definitely be that you´ll be able to save LOADS of money from entertainment and eating out… and if you buy shares, stocks or funds, in a year you´ll be both richer in cash and in values.

    Congrats on this effort!

    Tuesday, March 25, 2008 at 4:40 pm #
  4. @Medea: Actually, apart from cooking all meals for myself, I also cook for my guests (sometimes 20+) when I throw a party. :-)

    The only time I’ll really miss my maid servant will be the morning after a party.

    Tuesday, March 25, 2008 at 11:09 pm #
  5. IdeaSmith wrote:

    :-D Can I claim some credit for talking you into Rule no.8??

    Here’s another: Medical expenses? This includes dental care, check-ups, tests, medicines, doctor’s bills AND gymming/swimming/club memberships. Where do these fit into the rules?

    Wednesday, March 26, 2008 at 10:33 am #
  6. @Ideasmith: Yes, you can, but only partly; others have also played a part in creating rule #8.

    Medical expenses are so in the domain of necessities that I didn’t even think of them while making this list.

    My building has a gym and its membership is free with my flat.

    Any club memberships are, of course, not allowed, unless I already have them.

    Wednesday, March 26, 2008 at 11:07 am #
  7. Suchi wrote:

    So, basically your year of living economically is interesting because you don’t really need to do it.

    Monday, March 31, 2008 at 1:37 pm #
  8. Kapil wrote:

    Dude, I am really amazed that somebody I know personally is doing this kind of experiment. I have always been fascinated by the sorts who decided “to live one year online” or one year without technology and so on … And now I have you who is OFF consumption. All the best!

    Tuesday, April 1, 2008 at 3:41 am #
  9. @Suchi: That’s probably part of the appeal, I must admit, ;-) but there’s more. In fact, I wrote an elevator pitch for ‘The Marketer Who Went Off Consumption’ just for you.

    @Kapil: Thanks for the kind words; I’ll need all the support I can get to pull this off.

    Tuesday, April 1, 2008 at 10:21 am #
  10. Duhita wrote:

    Wow….. dropped by after a long time and it just sunk in what you intend to do! :O Good luck…. and just a thought, are parties a necessity? :)

    Friday, April 4, 2008 at 5:37 am #
  11. @Duhita: Thanks. No, parties are not a necessity, of course. So, after throwing one last party to finish off my stock of alcohol and munchies, I’ll have no parties for a year. :-)

    Friday, April 4, 2008 at 10:16 pm #
  12. B wrote:

    Yes, so you say you are off mass media, But you have an extensive blog, what is the difference? why do you trumpet yourself so much, over this. somehow it seems so fake, so egoistic, so largely ‘i am doing such a great thing’. I wish you were modest about this. yes, not consuming is a good thing, but you have so neatly woven it into such a fancy drama. maybe it is a necessity since you want to write a book out of this experience. Good luck!

    Monday, June 23, 2008 at 12:57 am #
  13. @B: Well, I’m not quite sure how to respond to your comment, but I’ll try nevertheless.

    I have explained in another post why I don’t watch TV anymore –

    TV (especially in a pre-TiVo India) expects us to sit through too much advertising and allows us almost no choice in terms of what we want to watch and when we want to watch it. I agree with Steve Jobs that “you watch television to turn your brain off and you work on your computer when you want to turn your brain on” and I prefer my brains turned on.

    When I’m writing, not only is my brain totally turned on, I’m trying to do something worthwhile — I’m trying to create meaning, for myself and for those who read my blog. That, surely, is not the same as watching TV. :-)

    Monday, June 23, 2008 at 12:09 pm #
  14. Ruchi_t wrote:

    How is this experiment going on.I was wondering whether I will be able to pull up such a task. Sounds tough but exciting. Should give a fell of “Back to the roots”

    Tuesday, June 24, 2008 at 5:23 pm #
  15. @Ruchi: The experiment is in full swing. I’m a little overdue on my “what have I learnt in the last three months” post, but I promise that I’ll write it this week.

    Monday, June 30, 2008 at 3:18 pm #

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